Blu you do have a really good point. I think my issue is finding a good balance with the sexuality portion, because I'm not a fan of objectification and such when it comes to male characters (let's ignore the outlier Hotaru here lmao).
So I guess my question is more how do you create and play a "traditionally masculine" character without hyper sexuality? Maybe more protective urges, or possessive? Walking the fine line with a monogamous but sexual character? Advice for that?