Age Ref - Zero is younger than Aisling
+1 - I thought this also!
Hon, you can dial it down, we know you've got the chops.
Personality Ref - "...energetic kid, always looking for trouble and getting into scrapes. I guess you could say I try to overcompensate..."
+0 - I feel like chops has more to do with talking or eating also. While I know it can also be used a jargon term relating to skill, I still don't feel it fits Zero in the context you've used!
Sweetling, stop, stop, watch that balance, even out.
Appearance Ref - only has one wing (LOOK AT THIS LOPSIDED CLOWN)
+1 - I actually thought directly of Zero for this clue.
Sugar, make me a sandwitch?
**Intentional Misspelling of sandwich-> sand-witch // Magic Ref - creates magical golems out of minerals from the earth, sand for example!
+1 - clever clever
3/3 is a pass :)